what should i do in this situation?

sMiLeY!!	honestly u should do what u feel like doin, or u should say hey i want 2 hav kids but i want us 2 get married first and then hav a baby... thats what i would do in ur situation and hopefully he will understand how u feel

coolgal082004	You should let him know about your ideas as well and he should respect your decision because in a relationship, both opinions matter. And, I'm not saying this is gonna happen, but since you both are not married, there's a higher chance of a break up and what of the child then? I'm just saying... think one step ahead. In my opinion, it's better to get married first and enjoy it a couple years before having a baby.

Gr8life4me	Never get married until you both are at least 25. Get a good prenup contract, as you will probably split. It just makes things easier. this should include disposition of any children

DRaGoN	Yeah just tell him how you feel. He loves you,he will understand.

bea	Be honest with him! Tell him you want real family for your baby. Until then protect yourself, itâ€™s your decision. Good luck!

Teacher is Busy	I would tell him how I feel and then I would stick to my guns.

Lauren	you should tell him that you think it is better for a child if its parents are married and you would love to have children with him but want to be married first

Desiree	Tell him that a child is wonderful, but you want to be more stable in the relationship before having a baby. Tell him you want to wait until you are married, not because you don't trust him, but because it would be more stable for not just you, but the baby too. If he loves you and understands that it would be better for you both, he will accept what you say and wait until marriage.

Epic Love 4 EVA	You should first marry him before any child comes because what if he dies in the army and your kids one day ask "who is daddy" and he is not there to be found so make sure you are really, really ready for a .

Brittany	tell him you would rather be married first then have kids :) i think he would understand that hope it helpes

SarAnn	Tell him you're 'old fashioned' and still believe that marriage comes first, then a family.

BNP	Tell him that you want a baby but you are not comfortable with starting a family without having a husband first and then stand your ground.

dreamweaver824	1st- Go back to school, get an education 2nd- Get Married 3rd- Be married @ least 2 years 4th-Get a stable career 5th -Get a flat/house 6th -Then procreate

CydKnits	Tell him what you have told us.

â–â–€â–€âœ¿â–€â–€â–Œ LIL BEAR â–â–„â–„âœ¿â–„â–„â–Œ	Tell him you don't want a baby until you get married. He should understand.

Certain Stars	Talk to him about it. I heard this crazy idea that communication helps relationships!

Just Me	Don't settle. If he wants children then tell him to marry you. If he won't then you won't have his child. Men who aren't married find it easier to walk out on their family when they grow tired of the situation in most cases. Don't be the woman who gets left with children from a man who walked away.

fight.trainer	Ask him where your ring is? If he wants a baby, tell him you want that ring.

Dino Baze	I agree with kelly..............?

Cooley	Talk to him about your feelings. I'm sure he'll understand.

Bushwhacker2k	I would recommend you tell him you want to get married first. Communication makes the relation.

i_ate_sponge_bob	Well it seems quite straight forward to me, tell him you don't want children outside of wedlock. But don't make it an ultimatum.

KoKoKiTTy is depressed	you should not have a baby if you cannot support it financially you cannot support it emotionally you are a child you are not married you are not in a stable relationship you do not have good living conditions imo

Jack R	cool.

Jane Marple	Don't have babies. Specially that he's in the Army. If you're not married the Army will NOT pay for moving you with him when he's posted. He needs to show his commitment to you with a marriage.

eddieM	It is your body, don't have a baby until you are sure you want to. Just say no. Mean it. Don't change your mind.

mrs g2	Keep on taking your birth control... it's YOUR decision to make, not his. Don't have a child for any reason until you feel ready.

M	Tell him. Ask him where he sees your relationship going. Then you will have your answer.

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Me	If you want to get married first then he should honor that and respect that. If he can't...then maybe he isn't the one. If he loves you then he will want to do what makes you happy. I think that's great that he wants to be a daddy.. if he can commit to that then it shouldn't be to hard to commit to a marriage to, right? I say stand your ground : ) Tell him what's on your heart and why it's important to you.. To have a baby the two of you should be able to work out any problems that come your way, you should be able to understand and respect each other. Make decisions together.. because when baby comes or even just marriage.. there will be many more decisions coming your way. Good Luck! : )