whats your secret to a happy marriage/relationship?

hugabug72	honesty , trust, express your love in little ways every day, make time for one another, take time out before speaking in anger, leave past mistakes in the past, laugh together, and remember love grows best with time and care......... I've been married for 6 wonderful years, and these are the reasons why we are planning on spending the rest of our life together.

Girliegirl	Love, trust, compassion, commitment, honesty, desire, communication, compromise, reliability, friendship, determination, respect, humor. Being able to say "I'm sorry" and mean it when needed. Being able to say "I was wrong", when you are. Don't sweat the small stuff. Not having to win every argument. Realizing it is a partnership and that we're on the same side.

DLola	never let anyone or anything get in between both of you. Not friends, not family, not money, not position... not even the whole world. Your relationship is all that matters. We experience this ourselves, things never get solved when we listened to others.But when we stand strong together, things get solved. You'll see...

peewee5001	Jesus Christ keep Him first in your marriage and the marriage will be blessed. Marriage is alot of hard work both parties have to give and take for a marriage to last. Read 1 Corn. 13:3-9 these verses will give you the definition of what love is. Also my wife and myself have been married for 21 years and we still love each other as much as the day we got married. Really, you have to keep Jesus Christ first in both of your lives. GOD BLESS

meisha	friendship, honesty, trust, and communication. But this takes time and commitment. sit down and ask each other whats up or whats on your mind.that way you can solve it. Remember absence makes the heart grow funder

maybobdance	Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year, and I must say we've made it through alot. I think what makes our bond so strong is that we trust each other and are always honest with each other. I hardly think of my boyfriend- he's truly my BEST friend- ever. You should be able to tell them everything after after a few months of going out. Trust, honesty, etc. You'll need some tolerance too- things don't always go too well, but for the most part they should. However, if you feel times are more often bad than good, or that he's abusing you in some way- it's time to say good bye. Good Luck! Not m

flowergirl	Compromise, Acceptance, Forgiveness, and Communication

zether	not being maried or in a relationship

przhm247	I hope that I can help! I'd say, lot's of patience, understanding and accepting of things. The Marriage will never be all roses! It will seem (at times) like a mistake! But! After almost 20 years; I can say that it's Always a give and take and Constant Growing period!! Good luck/God Bless!

enano	dont get marry

Mky	communication and understanding.Try and see the other side opinions and feelings and always be open to compromise.

serenesilence001	People have a tendency to forget that your partner/boyfriend should be your best friend. This is the person that you need to be able to tell anything, to trust them with anything, to be able to hold similar interests. You need to keep an ongoing friendship with them so that it never gets boring, you dont fight for the wrong reasons, and that you can love each other completely. You need to honor that person above all else and they to you. You need to give yourself completely as they must do for you. In a happy relationship, there is no holding back. Make them first in your life and if they do the same for you, that will spring up everything else you'll ever need.

animal lover	always talk to eachother, kiss at least 1 a day and say i love u... and never never ever go to bad mad and fighting work it out befor then b/c it will just get worsethe next day.. good luck

Grundoon	Listening, caring...cooling off

mummy	If you love him then there are no secrets to it, just respect eachother, talk everything through and most importantly....dont go to bed angry, always resolve things and kiss goodnight

Paul G	honesty and communication - it is that easy. Also, familys that play together - STAY TOGETHER.

Mille_D-Gurl08	If I knew I'd bottle it and sell it. Don't we all wish we knew the secret to a happy marriage or relationship. Unfortunately this secret changes on a case by case basis.

alwaysmoose	Both parties need to realize that they will never change the other person. That is where most marriages fail. Communicate openly. Know when to drop the gloves and fight, and when to just drop it. A marriage is like a country it has to have check and balances and divide labor. Make the divisions clear early. Don't try to read the other persons mind or assume they can read yours. I wouldn't wish that skill on anybody.

madroofer36	Total submission. lmao! Complete resignation! hahahaha good luck!!

m434u	Love Honnor and OBEY

Sasasa	never say never or always

K L	spice it up a little. :)

ksgirl	talk talk talk... be able to tell each other anything... your thoughts your hopes, your fears, your wants and your needs.

uncle billy	don't let small things become big things.

can u â™¥ moi?	hmmm i would like to know that myself