wife caught cheeting with a married man?

? ?	what's cheeting? isn't it CHEATING?

phoster	i am not a tattle tale. i believe if people do something wrong long enough, it will come out in the end. give him the rope and he'll hang himself.

Nette34	The wife needs to know.

uknow 87	i kill the *****! torture the nagga.

Nita R	it would be tempting. do what you think you can live with....she needs to know the truth, but be gentle if you decide to go through with it. if i was her, i would want to know. i'm sorry for you and the woman that was cheated on.

mikki12	Definatley expose them..................maybe his wife will kick the you know what out of yours ( I hope soon to be ex). Whoever said two wrongs don't make a right anyway..............please, i know it would make you feel better to callhis wife and have some tea and crimpets over some nice conversation!!

Dove	it would be nice to get even and hurt someone else so they can feel as bad as you do. let her go and find yourself. move on. if you must tell her than make sure your motive is not for the hurt or to destroy but to inform someone else that they are being lied to.

Buttercup	If I were you I would be the bigger man and walk away and wipe your hands clean of the both of them. If his wife doesn't know yet she will in time.

i know it all!	happened to me, only the guy was my good friend. Revenge doesn't help........... only time will. Kill em? go to jail.......

Stace	I would want to be told, however you shouldn't tell his wife just to get revenge. Tell her because you would want to be told. Feel sorry for his wife. Then after telling her, move on with your life! It will only destroy you to try and destroy his life.

Nalo	I think his wife has the right to know. Apparently their marriage is already destroyed if he is cheating. You are just helping his wife in this case at this point

chas	hurt people hurt people. heal your pain and dont choose to spread the pain. telling his wife is awfully tempting, but what would it serve to help you heal.

notagain49	I would tell his wife everything and but she probably already knows.

?	Why. What's done is done. I'm sure your marriage was on the rocks and was going under anyway, he just did you a favor and took her off your hands. You should send him a thank you card and wish him luck.

Gruesome Fate	its her fault not his, but destroy his marriage for piece of mind

7	It is her you have an issue with.... not him. The breach of trust was with her.

princess_amypie	while i dont believe in destroying someone's marriage, his wife does have a right to know what happened... it's not your fault if it destroys his marriage, its his and your wifes

True	Personally, I wouldn't. The minute I get cheated on, that's it. It's over. I don't need to waste my time coming up with ways to get revenge. I already wasted enough time dating a cheating loser.

darlin	No I would not destroy his marriage. I would confront him, and let him know, that you know of his broken promise to be faithful ~let him know if this continues with your wife, his life will soon hurt as badly as yours is now. It was your wife that betrayed you, not only him. She was the one not strong enough to hold on to your trust. IM WITH FRED!!!!! The guy under me!!!!

Mean Carleen	That guy was not married to you nor did he commit to you. Your wife is the one that dishonored and disrespected you. Gut punch her and then divorce her sorry asssss

The Princess	His wife needs to know, if she doesn't already. However, don't go after the other guy...your wife is the one responsible for cheating on you. No one held her hostage, tied her up, or put a gun to her head to make her cheat on you.

missy p	tell his wife dump urs move on with life

Anji	I would let her know... I say this because I would want to know.

dixondug	I believe his wife has a right to know, and I would leave it at that.

Alexa's mommy â™¥	his cheating azz should be exposed too

~NIKKI~	Hey , all is fair in love in war right?

Jane	No. Two wrongs dont' make a right.