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would you be ok if your husband........?

would you be ok if your husband has a female friend who is a stripper and that friends says she wants to stop that carrer and get a job and your husband tells her she can move in with ya'll. this friend lives in another state and wants to move from where she is at now. would you be ok with this?







Gigi
Hell NO! You have enough issues with marriage that have nothing to do with other people. The last thing you need is a stripper (any woman for that matter) moving in your house. Too much temptation and drama. If you're questioning it now, rest assured you will question it later. Go with your gut. Obviously you're not comfortable with it, so the answer to him should be NO. Tell him you don't have anything against her, but you just don't like the idea and if he's a man about it, then he has to accept it and move on. If he throws a fit, he'll get over it.


Marilyn P
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he said she could move in so he gets some action
you are out of your mind if you allow it
beyond the shadow of a doubt, 100% guaranteed she will spread her legs for him


huckleberryjay
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That sound of wood creaking in the night you're going to be hearing is not going to be the wind!


I am Blessed.
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It depends on your relationship. If you fully trust your man, then yes. But as far as I am concern, it's not my man I don't trust, It's the woman. I don't trust any woman. And H*ll no, anit no other B*tch moving in my house, ok! Girl you need to go to your local movie store and get "Queens of Comedy" and watch it. Monique is doing stand up comedy and she talks about this very subject. She makes a great point. Plus it will make you laugh too. I think you need to go to a spa and relax, or lay out by the pool and think about this long and hard.
Because let me tell you, A man is a man, but a sneaky jealous woman is dangerous. Be careful and think, if it was me, "I don't have enough room" Better find somewhere else. Sorry.


Racin
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Nope not gona happen


Lucky♥Me
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Would he say OK if you asked for a male stripper friend to come & stay for awhile??? I think NOT...


fred7674
You lead an interesting life, when does this movie come out..I want to see how it ends!! ...lol....


Sabrina K
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I couldn't do it. I definitely wouldn't feel comfortable in my own house if this did happen. I wouldn't care so much if my husband thought I was being rude, he needs to understand how you feel as well!!


KiarasLilMomma
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No, if had a female friend that was a stripper he would be an exhusband. Im sure there are rare girls that arent hoe-ish but 99% are. Tell him its either you or her. Dont put up with that bs.
Are all his female friends this type of girl? It doesnt matter how much I trust my husband,that choice of friends reflects his moral values. Im sorry darling... I thank god my husband isnt like that. Hit him with a baseball bat and knock some sense into him.
Your not being rude. He is rude for even having a stripper as a friend.
And... this is the same guy that you think is getting tired in bed and wants you to get a better paying job... Is he expecting favors or money from her? I wouldnt want that atmosphere around a young son.


~Smoochies~
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Oh HELL no! No stripper would EVER be trusted around my husband no matter how much I trusted my husband. The fact that he offered her a room at your house concerns me. Does he like the idea of a stripper residing under the same roof? Does he think he will get favors? Maybe he just wants to flirt? I would definitely NOT be ok with this!


angels
No way!! When you got married all that should stop. My husband doesn't have female friends and if he did there ain't no way one would move in, I'm the only woman in my house!! That will most likely come between you and your husband. Stand your grounds he married you not her.


None of your buisness
Fck NO!


No More
I am going to have to say no to that one...


Patty M
My husband is too smart to hang around with strippers. He has his own private stripper at home.


Virginia_Woolf
hehe no, coz you are never gonna get her out of the house.


Anji
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Oh, heck no!

You set the standards for your relationship. If you are uncomfortable with his friendship, you need to tell him and he owes it to you to respect your feelings.

My sister-in-law allowed my Brother-in-law's ex to move in. Sure, they were only "friends" but this scenario stirred up so much drama....And she was a stripper, too...

Sure we aren't related?

Good luck.


luckyangel
HELL NO


Tina
wtf? i would definitely not be ok with this. How is he gonna invite a WOMAN that is a STRIPPER to stay at your house without your consent. Thats not right. She better be paying rent, lol.


Simply Lovely
Seriously?

There is absolutely nothing to consider.

HELL NO!!!!


thewifey
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Hell, Fu<k, NO!!!!


♥ ♥HONESTY RULES♥♥
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Nope.

No dirty strippers in my house........sorry!


Kayla J
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Nope.

Esepically if you have children. I'm pretty sure this "gal" has bad habits that are definitly not appropiate for your children to be around.


doing my best
Of course not...would your husband be ok if you had a friend that was a male dancer and he wanted to get out of it and needed a place to stay and you said he could stay with you and your husband...hmmmmm think about it.


shortmama7j
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UHH NO!!


I luv me some u!!
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If you had to ask the question here, i think you already know the answers....


♥†Ërìcs wìfëÿ *&* Ëthãñs Mømmÿ†♥
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UMM NO...







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