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would you rather be rich and unhappy or poor and happy?! why?!?

its a project i have to do and i wanted some opinions







Rums the Word
I would rather be happy and poor then unhappy and rich. There is more to life then money. If you are happy then you are rich in life, I don't mean money wise either.


Lily
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I am already rich and unhappy. So I will op for poor and happy. That is as long as I have a safe warm place to stay. I am really not material at all. (That is how we got to be very comfortable... by saving and not spending) Besides the money can be gone in a flash (look at the stock market today) then what would you be left with!


me...
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well heck i would love to be rich but unhappy no I'm very unhappy so i guess i would pick the poor and be happy because i think being loved by someone and him making me happy would be the best feeling ever.... i think money would not even matter! money is nice but why be unhappy you might just end up on drugs or a drunk and then die a very unhappy person never knowing what love is all about... that is just me though!


you & me & me & you
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I rather be poor and happy. As long as you are happy and have long, you can get through it all. You can always try to up your financial situation


Callie
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Poor and Happy! First, happiness can not be bought or sold, it has to come from within! Happiness is a state of mind, peace and fulfillment. Money is temporary, it only provides instant gratification. I'd take the poor road because I know I would be 'rich' with happiness!! ;-)


celticbuddha
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poor and happy.

money isn't all that people think it is. yes, it's great to have the necessities all taken care of, and perhaps a bit on the side just to have fun with. but anything more than that just complicates matters.

a simple, healthy and happy life for me, thank you!


~ Bubz ~
Most people that are rich are unhappy!!!!

Ever heard of the saying money cant by love/happiness.
More money more problems.

Im going for poor and happy.


gingygirl
Hell I have been both and right now we are working on being somewhat richer and happy....


Curious
I would rather be poor and happy. Some people might think that possessions would make you happy, but that's very short term in my opinion. True happiness can't be bought.


headbang
ive done the poor and happy
lets see how bad rich and unhappy is


Annonymus
I would be poor and unhappy, because the best things in life are woth not one penny! And besides all the rich people are just snobby and dont appreciate a damn thing that they were blessed with!


Mark G
Happiness is the most important thing. So if I had to choose I'd be poor and happy..which is pretty much where I am now..haha. But really, sometimes when bill collectors are nagging me and there are things I need to buy and the stress is almost overwhelming...I take a moment to think about what I DO have...a woman that loves me and that I love, great children that are healthy and a roof over my head..that's the best stress relief for me.


breisingermela
I would rather be poor and happy. Happiness is everything to me personally. Why have all the money in the world and be unhappy??

My husband and I don't make much money at all...but we are pretty much happy with what we have and happy with our lives.

My sister-in-law and husband have money and you can tell they are completely miserable with eachother. She even tries to make me jealous sometimes by rubbing it in my face how much her husband makes for a living. It doesn't bother me at all...cause I look at her life...and I wouldn't want her life for all the money in the world. I am happy and content with my life and she can have the money!!


Narcisist
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Happy,,,,,,,,no matther how when where,,,,,,just happy.lol


♥Pure Evil♥
I would rather be poor and happy. Can't put a price on happiness. U can't buy happiness. Happiness is what makes life worth living not money!


Lil miss muffitt
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I would rather be poor and happy anyday. No matter how much money you have, it doesn't make you happy. You can buy a lot of stuff, but happiness is not one of them.


black&proud
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money cannt buy you happiness, so i'll rather be poor and happy.


Ya-sai
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I'd like the chance to be rich and unhappy and see for myself


Badkitty
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Money can't buy happiness. I would rather be happy and content.


Matilda
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i'd rather be poor and happy.

my happiness is much deeper then material things. i would much rather have a simple life anyway.


jangirl32
poor financially isn't what matters if you are happy with yourself and your life.

poor and happy anytime


Brian C.K.
I know plenty of people who are rich and unhappy. What good is having $$$ if you're unhappy? You can buy stuff with $$$, but that won't make you happy either. I know more people with little $$$ and are very happy. Happiness is a frame of mind and it can't be purchased. I won a contest years ago that put me "on top of the world", but after some time, the "stuff" got old and I resorted back to my usual self. I would choose the latter any day. Poor and unhappy.


Keeper
Rich and unhappy because I've already been poor and unhappy. Just make sense to me!

Happiness would be wonderful Rich or Poor. So, truthfully Poor and Happy.


Austin G
Rich and unhappy! Having money will provide things for you that a lack of money can't. Even if you are miserable money will still buy you things you NEED to survive, such as clothes, food, medical treatment, etc. If you have a loved one that is in need of life saving medical attention money is what you need. "I love you and will pray for you" is all fine and good, but a doctor is what will save your loved one. And those of you that do not have medical insurance understand that without money you get little or no treatment in this country!


When your baby cries from hunger, money is what feeds him/her. Money gets you diapers, formula, wipes, medical attention for your child.

Anyone that says money is not everything is broke and delusional. Money is not the root of all evil, LACK of money is the root of all evil. Money is what keeps the world going. You may not like it, but it is the truth.

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Sara
How poor? Poor and living in a homeless shelter? If so, I'd rather be rich and unhappy. Because...

I would find things to make myself happy. I believe happiness is all a state of mind. If I was guilty for being rich, I would volunteer with some homeless shelters or food pantries to feel I can give something back to the community.


Raven
I've been rich and miserable, and I have also been poor and happy. Your question implies money does not make one happy, so why even try the rich thing if you can't buy yourself happiness? I'll go with poor and happy.


Devika Potter
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poor and happy ..coz the ultimate aim of wealth is to be satisfied and happy ... so instead of being rich and unhappy ..its better to be happy and satisfied even if i m the poorest in the world !


belen2499
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I have had the opportunity to live on both sides of the fence. You have to find happiness in yourself first before you can be happy with anything else. I prefer to be poor than to be rich and miserable. Money doesn't buy happiness or love or even friends. Money only pays the bills and buys you necessities and allows you to buy things you don't really need...which does not make you happy in the long run as you will constantly find other things to buy that you think will make you happy. No...for me poor and happy is more pleasurable.


Maxx
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Take this from experience :
Money, like power, tends to corrupt.
My marriage have fallen apart over a windfall.


Jennifer M
I am poor and happy... i'm content with who i am and I know that my kids are coming first... and they're happy even though we can't buy them lots of stuff.







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