wouldyou divorce your spouse if they insisted you do certain acts in the bedroom that you did not feel ?

Nancy M	I would not get a divorce but instead let your spouse know that you are not comfortable with what they are wanting you to do.

"Jsgdgirl_nls"	no i wouldnt divorce him i would try the acts then i would think of any of my fantasys and have him/her do it for me................

Anonia	Nope. People get bored with doing the same things the same way forever. It is the way we are. Doing different things spices things up.

Gail S	No, you should tell him how you feel, and if he does not bother listening to you, then he is no man for you. men should respect the way woman feel and if they don't care for your thoughts, then you shouldn't care for his.

HappyHeather	If they do it in a rude and demeaning way, or do it in a disrespectful way, it would be hard to stay in the marriage. We all deserve respect and love. I can't say insisting I do certain things would lead me straight to divorce, it seems like the ultimate close to the situation. However, as I mentioned if it was disrespectful, I would be gone in an instant.

â™¥belterâ™¥	no i think that's is a bit of an over reaction and i would talk it over and try and compromise with them.

Twiggy	I woudld tell him No and Please don't ask again. What do you mean by insisted? Does he force you? Can you say NO to him without an episode? If you feel uncomfortable and tell him so and he keeps on trying then that is disrespectful. And you should take care of yourself first. And leave him.

b0babs	You should be able to talk about the "acts" and how you feel before divorce is considered.

I Block Stupid People	If by insisted you mean physically forced me to perform those acts against my will, then yes. I'm not into being married to a rapist. That said, I have better taste in men than that and my husband and I have never had that problem.

Jack Frost	marriage isn't something that should be thrown away that easily just tell your spouse that you don't feel comfortable, marriage should be about committment.

me	wow, people are crazy. how about talking about it...

?	Yes I would over certain things. It would always be clear that those things were off limits as well.

meg420c	No I wouldn't divorce my spouse for that reason alone. If I decline, and my spouse becomes more and more persistent in asking, I'll keep declining. I would think most spouses are on the same page as far as bedroom activities go. A divorce is a bit far to go.

Shannon F	Unless it is dangerous or hurts another person, then no.

URgirlSAM	I would not divorce. I would try to compromise and do only certain things but whatever is truly not my thing he has to understand he can ask that of me. I wouldnt turn him down for everything and I would try to see if i like it.

-abi-	no, just tell em how you feel about the situation

Pink Cinderella	well... no, cuz my husband tries to do that all he can and I wouldn't divorce him for something like that. If he loves you he will be understanding about it but that's not something to divorce over, you just need to communicate with him. if you feel that strongly about it, be honest and have a sit down talk with him.

nita5267	No, I'd just complain and make him feel like an idiot, you know, like normal.

Mr Nice Guy	not really..he/she must try to please your mate as much as possible,its the way to spice up your relationship...but if he/she doesnt feel comfortable you have to respect their decision...you cant make anyone do anything agains their will

Rachael M	No, just talk to them about it. Tell them you don't feel comfortable doing that. I bet they'll understand.

Mrs. California	I wouldn't divorced my husband. I would want to see if we can agree on something to make me comfortable and him happy!

Tara Bara	Hmmm... this is why it's good to go through all this before two people get married. I'm not sure. What kinds of "acts" does this person want you to do?

Straight up truth	You should have known that....what they were into when you married em. A geek in the streets but a freak in the sheets.

hopeless romantic	I would discuss it first but if there is no understanding or compromise then yes I would divorce. Life is to short to be unhappy

sandy	If I felt threatened in any way (more than once) I would think about it.

Angel	No. But respect is necessary. I just wouldn't do certain things.

Shay	my cousin did it, he insisted but she didn't want to so she divorced him

Joseph C	A separation, short of divorce may be in order, if they're a selfish pig.